Sharing of what i see, i hear,i faced, and experienced throughout my life.. ;)
Monday, 1 August 2016
All those beautiful memories
Monday, 18 July 2016
Syawal, month of tighten the loose.
But this is the special of month of syawal especially in malaysia, we always visit n come to houses even in a large group just to have a visit. N even more, to eat what have been cooked, hehe.
Moreover, there are always an open houses, invitation for a visit and also many many wedding event that been held on this month. N all of it, the main attraction is....to eat what have been served.
Actually, its irony becoz we have fasted for a month before, and get loose a couple of weight becoz of that (its a good thing though), but when its come to syawal, everybody will increase their weight (but not all, yes, have to admit it).
And worst, their weight increase are far more than what they've lost..so technicaly they are fatter..hahaha..
Well, its a joy for visiting friends n relatives that are long gone, some of them are working far, have a family n busy with their work and its a good things to tighten the relationship n ukhuwah that are easily broken nowadays.
Although we need to pay with the price of our body weight? Come on!! we always defeated when it comes to lemang and ketupat with some rendang and sambal kacang, hehe, thats a lot of consideration to make, haha. And its not good thing to waste becoz wasting is the devil favourite (peoples reason to eat much :p )
And in the end, exercises and playing badminton is a must to stay healthy and keep our body on right scale of BMI. And also dont forget to fast the 6 days of syawal, it will help (a bit) and also have a big rewards if you can made it.
Till my next post, adios and wassalam
Wednesday, 13 July 2016
Saat sukar
Friday, 8 July 2016
Ujian sebenar
Ramadhan berakhir sudah, ia sudah pergi meninggalkan kita..tp bagaimana kita? cmne dgn iman kita? Mampu x utk kita kekalkn pace yg same time ramadhan lps?
So, Something for us to think back, who r we actually? Hamba tuhan? Atau hamba ramadhan? hmmm
Cube cek blik amal kita..cek balik ibadah kita..cmne dgnnye? Adkh kita wat semata2 kerna utk memenuhi ramadhan? Ataupun kita mampu utk kekalkn niat kita utk tuhan n cube sedaya upaya utk istiqamah sesudah bulan pose?
Ada pepatah arab menyatakn:
كن ربانيً ولا تكن رمضانيً
"Jdlah engkau hamba tuhan, n jgn jadi hamba ramadhan."
At first, mmg rs mcm, eleeehh, x punye lr, tp bile dh masuk syawal, ujian sbnr bermula utk menilai blik diri kita, sejauh mana ikhlas kita kerana Allah?
Mmg nmpk sukar, tp bkn mustahil. Cubelah utk istiqamah, walaupun sesukar mana pun. Bukankah usaha itu lebih bernilai disisi tuhan berbanding natijah? Hmmm
Monday, 27 June 2016
Searching for true love
Thursday, 23 June 2016
Malu Je Rasa
Pabila melihat manusia yg kurg upaya,
Mampu membuat ibadah lebih baik,
Sedangkan kita,
Yg cukup upayanya,
Tetapi selalu lari2 dr beramal soleh.
Malu je rasa,
Pabila melihat orang kurg pendapatannya,
Mampu sedeqah kebanyakkan drnya,
Sedangkan kita,
Selalu lokek dan berkira2 utk memberi.
Malu je rasa,
Pabila mereka yg kurg 'masa'nya,
Mampu curi2 masa utk membantu org lain,
Sedangkan kita,
Yg byk 'masa',
Hanya melihat dan memberi alasan.
Malu je rasa,
Pabila melihat org yg kurg sifat fizikalnya,
Tapi tggi akhlaq dan imannya,
Sedangkan kita,
Cukup sifat fizikalnya,
Tp rendah akhlaq dan iman kita.
Ya Allah,
Ampunilah kami,
Diatas segala kelemahan kami,
Diatas 'kurang'nya syukur kami pd setiap pemberianMu,
Diatas lalainya kami pd tugas kami sbg hambaMu.
Friday, 10 June 2016
Kurangnya ia, maka hancurlah diri.
Persamaan perkataan taqwa dengan sikap berhati-hati pernah terungkap didlm perbualan antara Umah al-khattab dgn ubay bin ka'ab dimana ubay bertanyakn kpd Umar tentang makna taqwa. umar menjawab dgn persoalan baru "pernahkah engkau berjalan ditempat penuh duri? Ya, pernah, jwb uaby. "Apa yg engkau lakukan?" Tnye Umar kembali. Tentu aku sgt berhati-hati melaluinya." Jawab ubay. "Itulah yg dinamakan taqwa" tegas Umar.
Jadi, cmne taqwa kita?
2. kalo kite menipu org yg kita syg
3. bile kita maki org dgn perkataan yg x sepatutnya.
bile kita gagal utk rasa apa2 kesalahan atau menyesal dgn apa yg kita buat seperti contoh2 diatas, sebenarnya kita ada masalah dgn hati kita. Mana rasa taqwa or takut pd tuhan dlm diri bile kita buat bnde diatas especially yg berkaitan solat, tiang agama kita.
Jd kalo taqwa dh xde, cmne kehidupan kita? Bile x malu, x takut buat kejahatan, maksiat, n fasad.
Monday, 6 June 2016
Jom lumba jom! Hehe
Akhir kalam, buatlah amal yg terbaik, lebih baik dari tahun sblmnya. Kalo dh mula dgn amal yg byk, consistentkn smpi akhir ramadhan, kalo br nk mula, blom terlmbt lg, cube utk tingkatkn ckit2, spy nnt dh akhir ramadhan nnt kita puas hati dgn usaha kita. Semoga akhirnya nnt kita dpt pengakhiran yg terbaik.
Sunday, 22 May 2016
A reflection for self motivatin
Its a deep advice i've got from a jumaah sermon while im in egypt long ago, when the imam said:
اذا تراك قراء القراءن بالدقيقة، وانتم تركه بالساعة،
اذا تركه بالساعة، وانتم تركه باليوم،
اذا تركه باليوم، وانتم تركه بالشهر،
اذا تركه بالشمس، وانتم تركه بالسنة،
اذا تراكه بالسنة، وانتم تركه حتئئ الموت
"When you leave the quran from your reading for a minute, then you'll leave it for an hour,
Then if you leave it for an hour, you'll leave it for a day,
If you leave it for a day, you'll leave it for a week,
If you keave it for a week, you'll leave it for a month,
If you leave it for a month, you'll leave it for a year,
And if you leave it for a year, you'll forgot it for the whole of your life."
When i heard this, it comes to me like a lightning that pierce deep into my heart. It made me thinking, how are my day today? Have i read the quran? How many pages that i've read and how many left to read?
It just came like someone are telling me what to do, what have i forgot. Allahu, i've almost cried at the end of that day..how He always remind us so many things, but we are always forgotten. We forgot about Him, we forgot about what we must do, forgot about the purpose that have been assign to us.
" And i did not create the jinn n mankind except to worship me" (51:56)
After that incident, i've always remind myself 'Have you read the quran today?' (Although i've always fail to do so, hehe) but i've tried. But its not to complicated if you ask your friends to help. Its a good deeds for you to remind your friends and in the same time or indirectly, its reminds you also. Plus, it will be more easier actually, to remind or help one another.
So, right now, im asking you, right now, this last sentences of mine, have you read the quran today? ^_^
Monday, 16 May 2016
A step towards a Change in your life
'Ak nk berubah ler thun nih' , 'azam ak utk berubah sbb tettt' , dan byk lagi kata2 yg menyatakn keinginan utk berubah saban hari. Bila dh niat, maka mulalah lgkh2 ke arah perubahan yg baru dlm diri setiap insan. Tetapi, seperti biase, ada yg gagal..dn x kurg jgk yg berjaya merubah diri kearah yg diingini.
Maka dgn itu, kluar ler plak kata2 begini, 'ssh lah nk berubah', 'alah, kalo berubah pun dpt apa pun... ' xde org support', n mcm2 lagi. Begitu lah manusia, dulu, kini, n selamanya.
Memang, utk melakukn suatu perubahan itu susah, lagi2 bile kita nekad utk berubah kearah yg baik. Ada je halangan2 n gangguan2 yg perlu dilalui oleh org2 seperti ini. Sbb syaitan x pena putus asa utk menyesatkn ank adam dr mengikut apa yg diturunkn oleh tuhan. Mereka dengki dgn manusia yg tuhan jdikn sbg sebaik2 ciptaanNya.
JANGAN kawan, Allah berfirman dlm kitabNya yg agung:
Tp kawan, teruskn lah berubah walau apa pun terjadi. Kerna pabila anda berjaya, anda akn merasa nikmat yg teramat sgt, anda akn bersyukur sgt dgn apa yg tuhan bagi. Juga kerna setiap yg berlaku itu oenuh dgn hikmah2 yg tersembunyi. Fikirkn pengakhiran, insyaAllah jln2 yg dihadapi penuh liku ini akn jadi mudah sahaja. seperti org yg kehausan br pulang dr pdg pasir, bile terlihat je air,maka dia akn berusaha sedaya upaya utk mendptkn air tersebut walaupun disebelahnya org memberikn sedulang emas.
Carilah bi'ah atau suasana yg membantu kearah perubahan supaya lebih mudah utk kita. carilah kwn2 yg soleh dan solehah yg mampu membimbing kita, yg mampu menunjukkn contoh yg baik, mampu memberi nasihat tatkala kita tersilap mahupun tersalah lgkh, mampu mengingatkn kita ttg tuhan disaat kita hampir terjatuh, dan menjadi org yg menyokong kita pabila kita memerlukan.
Akhir kalam, there is nothing impossible until you really fail to try it. Try n try, and never forget to tawakal after you strived, never forget to prostrating, begged and cry to Him in the middle of the night when everyone is still asleep asking for His guidance, then insyaAllah, you will succeed.
credit to someone special. :)
Wednesday, 11 May 2016
May all of us have a nice flight again someday together.
But in the end, our journey need to be continued. And all of us need to depart for our own ways.
And I'll tell you all about it when I see you again
We've come a long way from where we began
Oh, I'll tell you all about it when I see you again
When I see you again
All the planes we flew
Good things we've been through
That I'd be standing right here talking to you
'Bout another path
I know we loved to hit the road and laugh
But something told me that it wouldn't last
Had to switch up
Look at things different
See the bigger picture
Those were the days hard work forever pays
Now I see you in a better place
Uh, how could we not talk about family
When family's all that we got?
Everything I went through you were standing there by my side
And now you be gone with me for the last ride
First you both go out your way
And the vibe is feeling strong
And what's small turn to a friendship
A friendship turned into a bond
And that bond will never be broken
And the love will never get lost
And when brotherhood come first
Then the line will never be crossed
Established it on our own
When that line had to be drawn
And that line is what we reached
So remember me when I'm gone
How could we not talk about family
Why'd you have to go?
Why'd you have to leave me when I needed you the most?
Without feeling much worse
I know you're in a better place
But it's always gonna hurt
Give me all the strength I need to carry on
How do I breathe without you
I'll be waiting right here for ya
Till the day you're home
Give me all the strength I need to carry on
Hold every memory as you go
And every road you take will always lead you home, home
Sunday, 1 May 2016
Ramadhan is coming again, yippee!
“O Allah, make the months of Rejab and Sha’ban blessed for us, and let us reach the month of Ramadhan.” [Musnad Ahmed]
Sunday, 24 April 2016
Roaming around Key-El
A car just park on the side of the road, near a girl wearing sexy outfit. The driver lowering the car window..and the conversation starts..
A: how much?
B: just eighty.
A: for a night?
B: yes.
A: wow, cheaper cannot ah?
B: thats cheap already meh.
A: okay,im parking okay?
B: okay (with a smile)
but the car wasn't even want to stop, just continuing the road of endless journey. Visiting other places that can make the same situation like before. On the road, the scenery are scary, dark, with some timid girl on the side of the road wearing almost-naked outfit. And worst, there are also some transvestite looking for client on the side of the road too (almost puke seeing how they dress).
Hurmm..pity..how the value of people become soo cheap these days, plus, killing is just too normal. How money can buy people's loyalty easily...such a cruel world we live in.
How the world have grown soo old...while the inhabitant on it still on n ongoing made a huge destruction to it selfishly...directly and indirectly..
Monday, 11 April 2016
Mosque people?
عَنْ النُّعْمَانِ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: مَثَلُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ فِي تَوَادِّهِمْ وَتَرَاحُمِهِمْ
وَتَعَاطُفِهِمْ مَثَلُ الْجَسَدِ إِذَا اشْتَكَى مِنْهُ عُضْوٌ تَدَاعَى لَهُ سَائِرُ الْجَسَدِ بِالسَّهَرِ وَالْحُمَّى
from An-Nu’man ibn Basheer reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The example of the believers in their affection, mercy, and compassion for each other is that of a body. When any limb aches, the whole body reacts with sleeplessness and fever.”
(Sahih Bukhari and Muslim)
Well, that is our strength, but people nowadays cant see that. For them, a relationship is always based on something. Business, money, even things that they might have from someone. Its a sad thing but thats reality.
Thursday, 7 April 2016
Harvest your farm (world) for your ending (akhirah)
In this world, there are many things to be catch-up, jobs, money, women, kids, all of it. But are we know that all of them are a test for us. A test of desires.
End of every month, people are going to ATM or banks to check upon their salary, or what left of its. While its the time to cheers every free moment with the family..because 'Mr. Money' is still around.
Some people do good with their money by giving charity or even to help others in need or to make others happy. But some people takes granted of what they have.
Some people just couldn't get enough with what they have, they want more and more while regretting and questioned of what they have. Isn't it whats more important is that you feel satisfied with what you have and grateful for it from Allah, who always give you what you need better than what you want?
Allah have said in quran:
وإِذْ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمْ لَئِنْ شَكَرْتُمْ لأَزِيدَنَّكُم
وَلَئِنْ كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِي لَشَدِيد
'And remember when your Lord proclaimed: "if you are grateful, I will surely increase you (in favour), but if you thankless, indeed, my punishment is severe. " (14:7)
But some people, they just cant, they doesnt care about anything besides money n their own desires.
If its hard for you to be grateful, try to find others that are unlucky like you, others that doesnt have anything unlike us. With that, you will br more grateful of what you have.
Well, there are other peoples, starving in other side of the world, starving to death, do we care? Do we think of them when we have everything and they have nothing. Especially our brothers and sisters in the middle of war, in Palestine, in Iraq, in Syria. Save some pity and give them what you have.
The truth about this world is, the more you take, the less you have. This world are only a mere test for us. Test for us to be grateful of what we have. Its not cruel to strive for the best to have dunya, but its cruel to strive only for it and lost for His mercy. And this world(dunya) are like a farm, we worked hard for it to have the fruit in the end(akhirah), not only for the joy of successful in the middle of a growing tree.
" Oo Allah, help me to put this dunya in my hand, not in my heart "
Friday, 25 March 2016
Susahnya perlu bersabar
Sabar lah, sabar lah, dan sabar lah..kerana sabar itu memerlukan masa. Sabar juga brmaksud bersabar dlm berikhtiar untuk menyelesaikan sesuatu itu. Kalo sabar je, xde usaha = useless. Contoh plg mudah, bile ibu mengandung, nk xnk perlu kesabaran selama 9 bln utk lahirkn anak.
"Apakah manusia mengira bahwa mereka akan dibiarkan (saja) mengatakan, "Kami telah beriman," sementara mereka tidak diuji lagi?"
(29:2)
Sunday, 20 March 2016
Syurga??
وَبَشِّرِ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ أَنَّ لَهُمْ جَنَّاتٍ تَجْرِي مِنْ تَحْتِهَا الْأَنْهَارُ ۖ كُلَّمَا رُزِقُوا مِنْهَا مِنْ ثَمَرَةٍ رِزْقًا ۙ قَالُوا هَٰذَا الَّذِي رُزِقْنَا مِنْ قَبْلُ ۖ وَأُتُوا بِهِ مُتَشَابِهًا ۖ وَلَهُمْ فِيهَا أَزْوَاجٌ مُطَهَّرَةٌ ۖ وَهُمْ فِيهَا خَالِدُونَ
Dan sampaikanlah berita gembira kepada mereka yang beriman dan berbuat baik, bahwa bagi mereka disediakan surga-surga yang mengalir sungai-sungai di dalamnya. Setiap mereka diberi rezeki buah-buahan dalam surga-surga itu mereka mengatakan, "Inilah yang pernah diberikan kepada kami dahulu." Mereka diberi buah-buahan yang serupa dan untuk mereka di dalamnya ada istri-istri yang suci, dan mereka kekal di dalamnya. [Surat Al-Baqarah 25]
Best tak syurga nih? Beessttt sgtt, mesti rasa cm eskkn nk masuk syurga.
Tp nak masuk syurga ni, sebenarnya susaaahhh sangat...sebab apa ye?
Pertamanya, kne tingglkn maksiat yang kita wat. Ingat senang ke nk tgglkn maksiat? Ssh kut, sbb maksiat nih bnda yang best sangat bila wat. Kalau buat, memang senang, tp bila nak tinggal tuh, Allahuakbar, macam kne angkat gunung dr bahu sendiri. Tp kawan, sume tuh bkn mustahil, kita mula sikit-sikit, nnt lama-lama, insyaAllah bole. And bagi seorang muslim pun sebenarnya, meninggalkan kejahatan itu lebih diutamakan berbanding dr buat kebaikan. Tapi nih bukan lesen untuk bermalas-malasan biat kebaikan ye.
Keduanya nk kne buat amal soleh. Umum tahu, nk laksanakn solat 5 waktu pun susah, belum kira nak jemaah lagi, awal waktu lagi. Benda2 sunat lagi ler..kemalasan tahap tertinggi. Tapi takpe, mula je buat dulu, walaupun kdg2 terpaksa, nnt lama2 insyaAllah, ikhlas tuh akan datang.
Pastu yg ketiganya plak, kne istiqamah plak, adoiii..nak buat pun susah, nih nak maintain, nangis wehh, haha. Sabar, n takpe, istiqamahlah walaupun sikit. Sbb amal sikit yg istiqamah adalah lebih baik dr amal banyak sekali sekala je.
Tapi bile dh istiqamah, ada plak rs riak, ujub, takbur, n sum'ah. Allaahu... takpe, buat aje dan cuba untuk jauhkan perasaan tuh. Kalau takut orang cakap, takpa, buat je, kita nk beribadah keranaNya, bukan kerana 'dia', yang penting niat kne jaga.
Kawan, memang kadang2 cakap senang, nak buat susah. Memang betul, tp kita kena ingat, Allah bukan x nak bagi senang2, boleh je, sbb bnde2 nih x bagi kedan langsung pun kat Dia, tp kenape? Sbb Dia nak uji. Mana hamba-hamba dia yg betul2 berusaha untuk buat kerna Dia. Dia nk kita rs puas lepas kita dh usaha sungguh2, sbb Dia janji, sape berusaha, pasti berjaya.
Dan kita kne ingat jugak, syaitan pun dengki dengan kita, diorg akan cuba sehabis mungkin untuk sesatkan kita, biar kita fikir sume susah, sebab dia nk kita masuk neraka dgn dia. Sampaikan diorg nih mintak tempoh kat Allah untuk hidup sampai hari kiamat untuk satu je, nak sesatkan cucu cicit adam nih, sbb apa? Sebab TAKBUR dan dengki dengan manusia yang Allah nak lantik sebagai khalifah di muka bumi nih.
Akhir kalam, jangan pernah berputus asa dari rahmat Allah, Allah berfirman dalam alquran:
"Wahai org2 yg beriman, mintalah pertolongan (dr Allah) dgn sabar n solat, sesungguhnya, Allah bersama org2 yg bersabar." (2:153)
till my next post. :)
Tuesday, 15 March 2016
When the rain falls...
Hujan, suatu rahmat tuhan yang sangat diperlukan, especially bile hari2 yg berlalu bukan main panaih, berdenting2 kepanasan nye. Tapi skali mendung tuh, ya Allah, sejuknye menyenangkn..hoho..lagi2 bila dapat mandi hujan mcm kat kampung2 dulu..dulu je ler, skang x dpt, hujan asid dah orang kata, bahaya..skali mandi hujan, esok dah rasa macam nk demam dah, haha..
Tetapi...perlu diingatkan....umat dahulu juga begitu, bila mendung, diorang rasa happy, tapi sebenarnya itu ler hari terakhir diorang, Allah turunkan bala ke atas mereka disebabkn kejahatan2 yang diorg buat. Bkn xde org baik dikalangan diorg, tp bilangan diorg ckit, dan kejahatan masih berleluasa dikalangan mereka.
X takut ke kita?
Dengan kejahatan yg berleluasa disekeliling kita? Dengan couple nye, dgn kecurian, rompakan, bunuh membunuh. Itu belum lg kire pelacuran yg semakin menjadi-jadi, anak luar nikah yg dicatatkn pula semakin meningkat, n itu tak termasuk sekali dengan bayi2 yang dibuang dimerata tempat.
Dari ‘Atha’ bin Abu Rabah r.a. katanya, dia mendengar Aisyah r.a., isteri Rasulullah SAW bercerita, "Bila angin bertiup kencang dan langit mendung berawan banyak, tampak kegelisahan di wajah Rasulullah SAW sehingga baginda maju mundur (berjalan mundar-mandir). Apabila hujan telah turun wajah baginda berubah menjadi gembira dan hilang kegelisahannya. Berkata Aisyah, "Aku bertanya kepada baginda, apa yang menyebabkan baginda gelisah sebegitu rupa." Jawab baginda, "Aku khuatir kalau-kalau angin dan mendung itu menjadi laknat yang ditimpakan kepada umatku. Tetapi bila hujan telah turun maka hal itu adalah rahmat." (Hadis riwayat Muslim)
Jadi, ambillah seberapa banyak pengajaran dari kisah2 mereka yang lalu, buatlah apa yang Allah suruh, tinggalkan apa yang Allah larang.
Dan mohonlah keampunan, beristighfar lah, di kala langit telah berubah gelap dengan tanda2 seperti nak hujan.
Dan bile hujan mula turun, ambillah sedikit masa untuk berdoa:
اللهم صيبا نافعا
Allahumma soyyiban nafi'a
"Ya Allah, jadikanlah hujan ini bermanfaat (buat kami)"
dan doa2 peribadi yang lain kerana waktu hujan adalah antara waktu yang mustajab untuk berdoa.
" Sedarkah kita bahawa air hujan yang turun ke bumi adalah limpahan rahmat yang diberikan oleh Allah SWT dan bukannya malapetaka. Rasullullah SAW ada berpesan kepada umatnya bahawa apabila hujan turun ke bumi, setiap doa daripada umatnya adalah mustajab."
Friday, 11 March 2016
I'm back!
Assalam,
Its a thing when you stop writing, you'll make your writing skill worst. When you wrote less, it is absolutely make your reading less too, well, sorry to say, its a harsh thing to be a habit for you.
Furthermore, some people didnt like to speak, but rather give a practical examples. And some didnt like to talk, but have their own way to give what they have in mind. So how some of these people express that? well..of course with writing. And suddenly im both, hehe.
finally, some say, when you want to be a cloud, be the cloud that cool the people below you from the hot sun of the day., be the cloud that pour its rain for people's good. :)
So, okay, this will be my first post for the year, hope it will not be my last, haha.
Till my next post, adios~ ;)
Credited to awan putih.