Syawal, month of tighten the loose.

it is a norm when it comes to a celebration, we came over to visit some relatives n friends, some are just besides us n others far far away.

But this is the special of month of syawal especially in malaysia, we always visit n come to houses even in a large group just to have a visit. N even more, to eat what have been cooked, hehe.

Moreover, there are always an open houses, invitation for a visit and also many many wedding event that been held on this month. N all of it, the main attraction is....to eat what have been served.

Actually, its irony becoz we have fasted for a month before, and get loose a couple of weight becoz of that (its a good thing though), but when its come to syawal, everybody will increase their weight (but not all, yes, have to admit it).

And worst, their weight increase are far more than what they've lost..so technicaly they are fatter..hahaha..

Well, its a joy for visiting friends n relatives that are long gone, some of them are working far, have a family n busy with their work and its a good things to tighten the relationship n ukhuwah that are easily broken nowadays.

Although we need to pay with the price of our body weight? Come on!! we always defeated when it comes to lemang and ketupat with some rendang and sambal kacang, hehe, thats a lot of consideration to make, haha. And its not good thing to waste becoz wasting is the devil favourite (peoples reason to eat much :p )

And in the end, exercises and playing badminton is a must to stay healthy and keep our body on right scale of BMI. And also dont forget to fast the 6 days of syawal, it will help (a bit) and also have a big rewards if you can made it.

Till my next post, adios and wassalam

Saat sukar

tatkala diri keseorangan, maka disitulah semuanya bakal terluah. perasaan marah, sakit hati, iri hati dan mcm2 lagi mudah terhambur keluar dr pekung yg tersimpan lama didada.

Ternyata bukan mudah untuk bersabar bila menghadapi kesusahan. Dan bukan juga mudah utk menerima  nasihat 'sabarlah min' dr org lain. Tapi, percayalah..sabar itu indah...dlm seganap aspek dlm kehidupan kita.

Pertama, perbanyakkanlah beristighfar. Dgn istighfar itu akn memadamkan dosa2 yg telah lalu lantas membantu kite utk melihat dgn lebih jelas lg dgn mata hati dan hikmah disebalik apa yg berlaku.

Kedua, tahan diri dari berkata dan fikir yang bukan2. Takut2 kita mudah menyalahkn tuhan dlm apa yg kita hadapi tanpa sedar.Dari Abu Hurairah bahwa Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

مَنْ كَانَ يُؤْمِنُ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ اْلآخِرِ فَليَقُلْ خَيْرًا أَوْ لِيَصْمُت

“Barang siapa yang beriman kepada Allah dan Hari Akhirat maka hendaklah ia berkata baik atau hendaklah ia diam.” 

Ketiga, husnuzhon yakni bersangka baik. Bersangka baiklah pada Allah. kerna Allah tidak akn pernah menzalimi hambaNya dgn apa yg hamba itu tidak mampu bebani. Bersabar lah, kerna kite merancang, Allah juga merancang, dn Dia ada perancangan terbaik utk kita.

Kemudian sedikit demi sedikit, barulah kita akan redha dengan takdir yang ditentukan. dan mgkn kita bersyukur dgn ujian yg menimpa selepas bilamana kita mula nmpk hikmah-hikmah yg tersembunyi sblm nih.

Tiada yang tidak cantik kerana segalanya dalam aturan Allah. Ikhlaslah menerima sakit dan perit kerana disitu akan lahir suatu perasaan disayangi. Disayangi Allah dan Rasulnya. :')

Ujian sebenar

Ramadhan berakhir sudah, ia sudah pergi meninggalkan kita..tp bagaimana kita? cmne dgn iman kita? Mampu x utk kita kekalkn pace yg same time ramadhan lps?

So, Something for us to think back, who r we actually? Hamba tuhan? Atau hamba ramadhan? hmmm

Cube cek blik amal kita..cek balik ibadah kita..cmne dgnnye? Adkh kita wat semata2 kerna utk memenuhi ramadhan? Ataupun kita mampu utk kekalkn niat kita utk tuhan n cube sedaya upaya utk istiqamah sesudah bulan pose?

Ada pepatah arab menyatakn: 

كن ربانيً ولا تكن رمضانيً

"Jdlah engkau hamba tuhan, n jgn jadi hamba ramadhan."

At first, mmg rs mcm, eleeehh, x punye lr, tp bile dh masuk syawal, ujian sbnr bermula utk menilai blik diri kita, sejauh mana ikhlas kita kerana Allah?

Mmg nmpk sukar, tp bkn mustahil. Cubelah utk istiqamah, walaupun sesukar mana pun. Bukankah usaha itu lebih bernilai disisi tuhan berbanding natijah? Hmmm